Challenges--- I Like it!!!

People always bang on me rather challenge me that they are able to track all my feelings and thought. How I feel, what I will think in a particular situation, how i will behave... in short they feel they can read me as a open book.

But the irony is that the more they challenge me with this, I must confess I feel the more I should mislead them. If I nod and say to them that their guess was perfectly correct, they become so very damn happy. Some where you know I feel like a winner in this game. If they can play a game with me, (here in this case it would be decoding my thoughts) even i feel that i should counter them and then the real game begins. You sympathise with their thoughts about you and you can directly get in to their thought process and at times you get to hear some wonderful revelations. Is it not one of the simplest technique to get to know what others think about you and about themselves. But then don't over look simplicity... one mistake and everything goes wrong. It is an art which needs to be mastered. Navigating in to other thought looks simple but then it is not that easy.

I hope after reading my short writeup on this topic one will stop proclaiming or challenging that you can track or know exactly what others think. One may be smart but always remember that there are many who are much smarter than you. So stop fooling yourself and taking pride in your capability of interpreting others thoughts.

Take care!!

Love

Haritha

DISTANCE—Just Another Creation of MIND

Does distance actually keep people apart?? Many a times I have heard my friends saying that they broke off because their boy friend/girlfriend has left to some other countries either in relation to their work or for studies. “See yaar I think it is not going to work, distance will actually prevent us from keeping our relationship alive” this is one of the popular dialogue put forth by most of the modern day Lailas and majunus :P

I must say in these cases there love is blown away with the first stroke of wind. Limited understanding, love, respect for their partners aspiration, and must say the self centered nature of human being is what the actual problem is; what if he goes, who will take care of me?? That’s what is seen on the face all the so called self proclaimed beauties of this universe. In this self propagated belief, what happens is some where truth gets masked, tarnished and the real and genuine reason gets a wonderful chance to hide behind the façade of modern life’s busyness. Entire blame goes to city’s lifestyle without the people, the city mongers, not even thinking about the fact that the very city which they are blaming, is the source of their livelihood and forgetting to accredit it. The intention of city is always misinterpreted as giving birth to inhuman creatures.

I have said it intentionally here why because I believe that beauty is something very internal. There is no harm in gauging it externally but then by doing so, be prepared to accept the fact that you are fooling your self and somewhere deep with in you, you have that realization too. Stop living momentarily. It has no fun. At times it is always better to listen to your heart rather your brains :)

We marketing students always believes in value adds, in this case the value add would be pure heart, which knows to love. This can discern right from the wrongs. Which is strong in itself that it won’t become a burden on others, but always be a source of inspiration to others? Here the definition of love would to accept the person as it is, without asking him or her to mend their ways as per your aspiration. A real beautiful person will understand the intensity of my words, because they are audacious enough to accept the fact. Remember the real face of truth is always ugly… but then it can stand independent of other factors and won’t have to change faces to suit the surrounding.

So my earnest request to all those friends of mine would be to check their thoughts. Is it the distance that have parted them apart or is it the communication gap or is it purely your animal instinct? If you are not clear about your thoughts then just not defame LOVE, it deserves better treatment, because LOVE is divine and prosperous from its entire angle. It holds the purity of water originating from the mountain cliffs, after all we Indians believe in taking bath in the holy water of Ganga to wash off our sins.

So just dip in the holy water of your mind and get rid of all your sins by respecting, caring and loving your loved ones. Be grateful for what ever you have.

Do think over it!!

Love
Haritha

Operation boredom …

Am I really bored sitting alone? No not at all J thankfully you know what, I know how to spent time constructively. Sounds like a bit of boasting but that’s the fact. Yeah.. all philosophy apart, frankly speaking I was feeling very bored today. Come on yaar, how long can a person like me sit behind the confinement of closed door… but surprisingly I was doing that L.

Of late I sort of finished reading the book ‘The Monk who sold his Ferrari’, after that I went through some of the boring ppts of financial management, cooked food, cleaned house but still I had lots of time at my disposal. Finally I thought of going out for a walk and exploring some of the new avenue in Vasai. Entered a cloth shop when I was feeling too hot outside, (this was a technique adopted by my friend and me to ease ourselves in the cool breeze of AC in the shop) so if you are planning to adopt this strategy make sure that the store is air conditioned :D), showed no mercy towards the sales boy, I asked him to pull so many clothes out of the shelf that the sales boy became so happy, he felt that I am going to buy as many tops, which I had asked him to keep aside.

When the business was sort of getting serious, I slowly preferred to escape the situation at the pretext of not finding my favorite color, which even I was not sure off (there is no doubt that in such situation nobody would be sure of the color of the fabric that he was looking forward to buy). Poor fellow, he tried his level best but was unaware of my intentions. Must say, I behaved in a very royal manner as if I had so much money that if I felt like, I will end up buying the entire shop. I don’t know how could I control the whirlpool of laughter that was about to swirl out of me, but then you know I am a real good actress at times. :P

On my way back I thought of treating me with some real good food. I didn’t have to think twice, I automatically stopped in front of a diary and ordered for paneer. Reached home again I must say the same boredom started gripping. Called up ammuma, had a lovely conversation as usual, she gave me all the instruction as to how I will fall weak if I don’t have sufficient food; she asked me to take two glass of milk instead of one and the list goes on endlessly for half an hour.

Inspired by the speech delivered by her I thought of preparing Paneer thikka Masala and started cooking it for the dinner. The deep silence was killing me, so I finally thought of playing my favorite CD on the music system and played it little aloud… then it was all fun after that, I sang aloud with the music, danced to please my self and it will remain so forever (since if there is any award that could be given to bad dancer, I would be the winner of the trophy.. lovely na.. hmm .. but not that funny).. then what.. had what ever food I prepared like a rare wonder, praised me for my cooking skills and smiled at me. The only other guest was Meenu, cat who comes and sits in my house backyard regularly and must say the only other admirer of my garden except for me. Offered little food to meenu. And there ends the party.

Here I am back on my laptop filing my experience of the day…hopefully this will give some hint to all those staying alone as to how to spice up your day even if you have no one around.

I must say I am incredible!!! Just kidding, but I have no issues if you have taken it seriously J

Lovingly yours,
Haritha