DISTANCE—Just Another Creation of MIND

Does distance actually keep people apart?? Many a times I have heard my friends saying that they broke off because their boy friend/girlfriend has left to some other countries either in relation to their work or for studies. “See yaar I think it is not going to work, distance will actually prevent us from keeping our relationship alive” this is one of the popular dialogue put forth by most of the modern day Lailas and majunus :P

I must say in these cases there love is blown away with the first stroke of wind. Limited understanding, love, respect for their partners aspiration, and must say the self centered nature of human being is what the actual problem is; what if he goes, who will take care of me?? That’s what is seen on the face all the so called self proclaimed beauties of this universe. In this self propagated belief, what happens is some where truth gets masked, tarnished and the real and genuine reason gets a wonderful chance to hide behind the façade of modern life’s busyness. Entire blame goes to city’s lifestyle without the people, the city mongers, not even thinking about the fact that the very city which they are blaming, is the source of their livelihood and forgetting to accredit it. The intention of city is always misinterpreted as giving birth to inhuman creatures.

I have said it intentionally here why because I believe that beauty is something very internal. There is no harm in gauging it externally but then by doing so, be prepared to accept the fact that you are fooling your self and somewhere deep with in you, you have that realization too. Stop living momentarily. It has no fun. At times it is always better to listen to your heart rather your brains :)

We marketing students always believes in value adds, in this case the value add would be pure heart, which knows to love. This can discern right from the wrongs. Which is strong in itself that it won’t become a burden on others, but always be a source of inspiration to others? Here the definition of love would to accept the person as it is, without asking him or her to mend their ways as per your aspiration. A real beautiful person will understand the intensity of my words, because they are audacious enough to accept the fact. Remember the real face of truth is always ugly… but then it can stand independent of other factors and won’t have to change faces to suit the surrounding.

So my earnest request to all those friends of mine would be to check their thoughts. Is it the distance that have parted them apart or is it the communication gap or is it purely your animal instinct? If you are not clear about your thoughts then just not defame LOVE, it deserves better treatment, because LOVE is divine and prosperous from its entire angle. It holds the purity of water originating from the mountain cliffs, after all we Indians believe in taking bath in the holy water of Ganga to wash off our sins.

So just dip in the holy water of your mind and get rid of all your sins by respecting, caring and loving your loved ones. Be grateful for what ever you have.

Do think over it!!

Love
Haritha